Let's get back to basics; you're never too experienced to brush up on the fundamentals.
Encourage Your Team. Reassure your child daily of your love for him or her — by verbally telling them and through hugs, kisses, high fives, etc.
Be a Team Player. It can be easy for the primary caregiver to get burned out if there isn't regular and consistent support. If that's mom, give her breaks during the evenings and on weekends, or as much as possible when you are not at work. You will also need your own time to wind down from the day, but even little things, like reading a story or helping with bathtime, can make a huge difference/
If you're the primary caregiver, make sure you get the support you need. Work it out with Mom so that you are both on the same team and can give each other breaks when needed.
Don't Forget the Ground Game. Look for natural opportunities throughout the day to teach your child something that will help him/her grow and develop — like acquiring a new word, learning the difference between right and wrong, learning to share and get along with others, etc.
Be Committed and Disciplined. Commit to doing everything you can to be there for your child’s activities/events: i.e. doctor’s appointments, first day of school, graduations, soccer games, dance recitals, etc. It will mean the world to your children to have you there with them during these significant moments in their lives and they'll remember that you were there for years to come.
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