Huddle. Talk to as many dads as possible to learn about their experiences and to gain wisdom for this significant transition in life. Rather than going it alone, tap into the abundant resource that already exists - other dads! Plus, we bet you'll hear some funny stories.
Sacrifice for the Team. Be flexible. Realize that your time, in many ways, will no longer be your own. Take comfort in that you can still pursue your own interests, but that it may not always be when you want and to the extent that you wish. Commit to putting your child’s needs first, while being creative about how you can keep your own identity.
Call a Time Out. Identify one activity that helps re-charge your batteries. Maybe it's a game of basketball with the guys or an evening jog. Or, you might just need an afternoon with a good book or some time by the lake with your fishing pole. While things will inevitably change with the arrival of your little one, finding time for your own interests will be important to maintaining a positive and healthy outlook on what a gift you truly have in your child.
Keep it in Perspective. Choose to take the perspective that the joys of fatherhood outweigh the challenges. This can be difficult when you are in the middle of a big life change like having your first child. However, your attitude will be much different if you are intentional about enjoying life’s special moments with your child — like all of their firsts and the funny things they do that reveal their personalities.
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